As interest grows in the MOCKINGBIRD FAMILY™ Model, it’s natural for foster carers and those thinking about becoming one to have questions. This is a unique and relatively new type of foster care, and with anything new comes curiosity, and the need for clarity.
At Anglicare Victoria, we’ve had open conversations with carers involved in Constellations, as well as those considering the model. Many of the same questions come up time and again. This article aims to address those common questions and provide more information about how the MOCKINGBIRD FAMILY™ Model works in practice.
Will I lose my independence as a carer?
Not at all. Carers in the MOCKINGBIRD FAMILY™ Model still have full responsibility for the children in their care. You are still the one providing day-to-day guidance, setting routines, and making decisions in line with each child’s care plan.
What the model adds is a support network, not oversight. The Hub Home is there to offer help, not direction. Carers remain autonomous but benefit from having someone experienced to turn to when questions or challenges .
What if I don’t want to attend monthly gatherings?
Connection is at the heart of the model, but we understand that carers lead busy lives. Constellation events are designed to be supportive and enjoyable not an obligation or extra stress.
These gatherings create a space for children to build friendships with each other, and for carers to connect informally. Many carers find them uplifting, and children enjoy the chance to interact with others in similar situations. But we also know that life can get hectic, and flexibility is built in. Participation is encouraged, not enforced.
Will I be expected to take on more children or offer respite?
You will never be asked to take on more than you’re comfortable with. The MOCKINGBIRD FAMILY™ Model is about mutual support not increased demands.
If you’re open to providing respite care for another household in your Constellation, it will always be based on relationships and consent. Often, these arrangements happen between carers and children who already know and trust each other, making respite smoother for everyone involved.
But there’s no pressure. Your participation in any shared care is voluntary and guided by your availability and preferences.
What if I don’t feel comfortable sharing personal challenges with others?
That’s completely understandable. The MOCKINGBIRD FAMILY™ Model is about building relationships based on trust, not expectation.
You never have to share anything you’re not comfortable with. Many carers find that, as those relationships deepen, they feel safer talking about the ups and downs of caring. This openness often leads to more meaningful support, stronger community and a sense that they’re not in this alone.
What makes this model better than what I already have?
Every carer’s experience is different. For some, traditional care arrangements work well. But what many carers tell us is that they’ve often felt isolated, unsure where to turn when things get tough.
The MOCKINGBIRD FAMILY™ Model creates a stronger safety net. Instead of one carer facing challenges alone, you become part of a community where help is close and consistent. Whether it’s practical advice, short-term respite, or simply knowing someone understands this model offers real, wraparound support.
A Mockingbird carer states, “I enjoy the community connection within the constellation.”
Will I have to commit to this long-term?
There’s no requirement to join a Constellation forever. Like any foster care arrangement, participation is guided by your circumstances and what works for your household.
Many carers who try the MOCKINGBIRD FAMILY™ Model choose to stay because they see the benefits. But if you decide it’s not the right fit, we’ll continue to support you through our other foster care programs.
What if the model doesn’t work for me?
That’s okay. We recognise that no single approach suits everyone. What matters most is ensuring that children are safe and supported, and that carers feel equipped to provide care.
We’ll work with you to understand what’s working, what’s not, and how to adjust. Feedback from carers is central to the ongoing success and evolution of the model.
With Anglicare Victoria, you’re not alone
Foster care can be immensely rewarding but it also comes with challenges. The MOCKINGBIRD FAMILY™ Model doesn’t claim to remove those challenges. Instead, it ensures that carers and children don’t have to face them alone.
If you’re curious about joining a Constellation or just want to chat with someone who’s already part of one we’re here to help. Get in touch on 1800 809 722.
